Campaign - Porn
  • Porn consumption correlates with depression, anxiety, stress, relationship problems, and insecurity.
  • Even moderate porn consumption is shown to result in shrunken grey matter in parts of the brain.
  • So, Halcyon’s committed to doing something about it.

Recognizing the serious mental health risks posed by frequent porn consumption, as well as porn’s dangerous societal influence, Halcyon’s launched a campaign to raise awareness about the negative effects of porn consumption and provide a number of digital resources for people to get help, whether for themselves or someone else.

Studies show that porn consumption correlates with depression, anxiety, stress, relationship problems, and insecurity. 

There are broad consequences of porn addiction and consumption of pornography that exist on a global scale.

Even moderate porn consumption is shown to result in shrunken grey matter in parts of the brain that oversee cognitive function.

Not to mention, porn consumption can leave consumers unsatisfied with sex in real life, as they’ve come to expect fantastical encounters like what they’ve seen on-screen. 

As a result, men report being less satisfied with their partners’ physical appearance and sexual performance after exposure to pornography. They also report having an increased desire for sex without emotional commitment.

There are broad consequences of porn addiction and consumption of pornography that exist on a global scale as well. 

Among these are increased negative attitude toward women, decreased empathy toward victims of sexual violence, increase in sexually imposing behavior, increased levels of behavioral aggression, increased levels of violent sexual fantasies, and increased levels of assault. 

These effects can all be linked to porn consumption, regardless of whether the porn itself is violent. 

The Campaign

Keeping all of this in mind, we’ve launched a campaign to raise awareness about the negative facts relating to porn consumption as well as to make available resources to kick an addiction. 

To that end, we’ve created a landing page (https://quitting-porn.com/) presenting the most scientifically compelling, factual reasons to quit porn. We then provide three resource pathways:

  1. I need help. 
  2. Someone I know needs help.
  3. I want to spread the word.

The first resource (“I need help”) is for people personally looking to overcome issues with porn consumption. 

The second resource (“I know someone who needs help”) is geared toward those who wanted to help someone they knew overcome porn addiction. 

And finally, the third resource (“I want to spread the word”) is for those who want to learn how to be a voice for change with regard to the porn consumption problem.

Make sure to keep tabs on our social media for updates on this critical campaign.

musical.ly

I got a text from a friend yesterday morning that sickened me.

His wife had discovered that Musical.ly—an app one her children often use to find funny videos—is being exploited to feed kids pornographic content. Luckily, none of her kids saw the porn videos, but others did.

And what they saw was horrific. Life-altering.

I started digging. The first thing I realized was how young the users were: it looked like around 10 to 13 years old. The second thing I realized was that the app was pretty cool. I get why kids would like this . . . and kids do like Musical.ly.

But I soon realized that once you dig beyond the surface layers of the app you find a very creepy world of nudity, sex videos, and even — as one mother told me — child pornography.

I talked to this mother last night via email, and found out that her 12-year old daughter, “Annie” — who has a private account with filters set — clicked on something a friend liked, and up popped a video showing a male having sex with a girl who looked to be around 15 years old (according to the mother’s estimation). Sickened, the mother started to explore to see what the app was all about, and she found videos of girls she said might be 9 or 10 years old engaging in sexually graphic actions.

She immediately contacted authorities.

She also contacted Musical.ly, who responded with a “Sorry for the inconvenience” type response, and promised to remove the account and all of the videos.

Several hours later, however, the account remained with several pornographic videos still attached.

Annie said she was having trouble getting the images out of her head.

Pro tip for Musical.ly: This is innocence lost, and that is not just an “inconvenience” . . . it is criminal.

“Do not walk away from the fight . . . War is being waged on our kids.”

I asked the mother if there was something she wanted to share, and she said this:

“Do not walk away from the fight. War is being waged on our kids and on us as parents. The temptation is to be jaded (“this is life, we can’t keep our kids in a bubble forever”), overwhelmed (feeling like we are drowning already with everything else in life, this giant is too big to tackle), to avoid conflict with our kids (“she’s a smart girl, she knows better, and I don’t want to fight about something else”) . . .

“Say no to that temptation. FIGHT for every ounce of purity and innocence your kid has left. They are watching us, taking notes on what to care about, what’s valuable. They have to see that we believe they are valuable enough for us to meet danger head on, engage, and never, ever stop. Because we want our kids to fight, too, we have to model how to do this for our kids.”

Our kids are watching us, and we set the tone for what the future will look like.

What You Can Do To Protect Your Children

Take action right now. Our kids are worth protecting. They are worth the fight, and they will “see that we believe they are valuable enough for us to meet danger head on!”

Here are two more things you can do to help protect children:

Write A Review to Warn Others

Go to the Google Play Store or the App Store and write a review of the app letting other users know that there is adult content. Hit us up on Twitter or Facebook to let us know you did it. #ProtestMusic

Share to Alert Family & Friends

Share and get your family and friends involved. The more people that take action the better chance we have of Musical.ly committing to keep kids safe.

Pornhub

I got a message on Slack Saturday morning from Nathan, Halcyon’s Executive Director, and it reads, “Dude, look up the Pornhub Christmas gift card commercial.” It takes me a little while to Google it, since I am thinking this is obviously a joke . . . except, it’s not. Sure enough, after a quick Google search, I find an article with the video below. It is titled “SFW,” so I push play and watch the video. Is it funny? Meh. Is it disgusting? Not in the way you might think. The video doesn’t show anything inappropriate, in fact, this is its biggest offense. The Pornhub video shows family members hugging, and then the final gift exchanged is a Pornhub gift card given from a grandson to his grandfather. The grandfather is apparently very appreciative. The offense is that Pornhub is using the joy of family and Christmas to advertise their product; a product that is one of the greatest threats to family and completely offensive to the reason for Christmas — Christ’s birth.

A couple of months ago I wrote an article titled Millennials & Pornography: Are we preventing or perpetuating sexual violence? (hint: pornography perpetuates sexual violence), specifically citing Pornhub’s statistics on hours of pornography watched and the percentage of Millennials that watch pornography (second hint: it’s a lot). Here is an excerpt:

9 out of 10 rapists admit to using pornography on a regular basis. . . . One study asserts 28% of respondents who had been sexually abused reported their abuser used pornography during the act of violence, and 12% reported that they were forced to imitate pornography during their abuse. Another study shows that adolescents who view pornography are more likely to bully via physical and verbal sexual aggression, and participate in sexually violent acts. The study also found that pornography use was a good predictor of sexual violence. Moreover, about half of the most-purchased porn contains verbal aggression, and 88% contains physical aggression toward women.

Now, these stats don’t feel very Christmas-y. Pornhub, however, seems to think of their “product” as harmless, and their advertising clever and funny. But sexual violence and abuse don’t come across as very funny to me. The fact that 1 person every 107 seconds is sexually abused, and pornography plays a role in furthering that abuse, makes me think Pornhub’s ad is completely irresponsible as it is selling sexual violence, broken families, and abuse . . . by way of gift card.

Although it is an offensive product, the video is safe to watch. Warning: If you click the “Pornhub” logo in bottom right corner it will take you to Pornhub’s YouTube site.

Millennials Pornography

According to Pornhub’s latest statistics, people watched 4,392,486,580 hours of porn on PornHub’s site in 2015. Yes, that is over 4 billion hours . . . of porn . . . on one site.

While I am not naive to the prevalence of pornography, I still couldn’t help but feel shocked and I immediately thought, how does watching over 4 billion hours of porn (on a single site, mind you) impact our society?

Some research says it’s a good thing. There is a line of studies that make the “cathartic” argument, which basically claims consuming pornography reduces the desire to commit a sexual crime by providing a safe outlet for deviant desires. Milton Diamond, director of the Pacific Center for Sex and Society at the University of Hawaii at Manoa, takes it a step further and asserts there is “absolutely no evidence that pornography does anything negative.”

Well, Milton, that’s not true, but before I get to that I want to look at the “cathartic” argument a little more closely.

There are two points to the “porn decreases sexual violence” argument:
(1) as porn has become easier to obtain the percentages of sexual violence have decreased; and
(2) the support connecting porn to sexual violence is based on correlation, not causation. The issue is, of course, that those who hold this view are failing to connect the two arguments, since argument
(1) doesn’t hold any weight in light of argument
(2). There is no evidence of causality in regards to the increase of porn and the decrease of sexual violence.
There could be a million reasons as to why sexual violence has decreased, and no proof that easier access to porn has affected the decrease.

Now, does watching porn cause sexual violence? No, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a connection between the two, in fact, we know there is. For instance, 9 out of 10 rapists admit to using pornography on a regular basis. There is also evidence of a connection between sexual violence and violent pornography. One study asserts 28% of respondents who had been sexually abused reported their abuser used pornography during the act of violence, and 12% reported that they were forced to imitate pornography during their abuse. Another study shows that adolescents who view pornography are more likely to bully via physical and verbal sexual aggression, and participate in sexually violent acts. The study also found that pornography use was a good predictor of sexual violence. Moreover, about half of the most-purchased porn contains verbal aggression, and 88% contains physical aggression toward women.

So, it would seem like there’s a strong connection between porn and sexual violence, but what does this have to do with Millennials? A lot, actually. According to Pornhub, 60% of their audience is Millennial, and more women in our generation watch pornography than women in any other generation. This, in my mind, is a huge cultural setback.

We were supposed to be the generation that brought about gender equality.

All studies aside, we should be able to — on mere reason alone — understand how pornography affects the world, specifically women. Porn has always been a medium that improperly portrays and degrades women. As stated, there is proof of this, but we should be reasonable enough to understand it, and brave enough to say it.

Making matters worse, Millennial women are now participating at a record number in media that has demeaned them for years. This is problematic when Millennial-aged women are especially at risk of sexual abuse. 80% of of those who have been sexually abused are under the age of 30, and one in five women will be sexually assaulted in college.

Here is one last stat for you: 293,066. This is the approximate number of victims over the age of 12 that will be sexually abused in 2016 — about 1 person every 107 seconds.

It is clear that pornography is hurting society, yet our generation is supporting it in record numbers.